The Early
YearsIn early 1990, Phil Lancaster resigned his position
as associate pastor of Good Shepherd Presbyterian Church in
St. Louis, MO. to pursue his vision to begin a new
"family-friendly" non-denominational New Testament church, one
in which a family could be strengthened together, instead of
separately.
Several preliminary meetings were held with
others interested in this vision during that summer. The
vision appealed primarily, not by design, but by default, to
home-educating families. Two men agreed to act as "temporary
elders" for accountability purposes, at the request of founder
and lone elder Phil Lancaster. A name---Immanuel Family
Fellowship---was chosen and a date was set for implementation
of the vision.
This local church officially met for
worship and communion the first time in September of 1990 at
the Sheraton-Westport Hotel in west St. Louis County. Although
there was no formal membership procedure in place, there were
17 founding families.
A couple of months later the
meetings were moved to the Flaming Pit Restaurant in Des
Peres. Our church's first baptisms took place in January of
1991 as we utilized the baptistry at the nearby Des Peres
Baptist Church. By April of 1991 we relocated there and began
renting their building and using it after their own
congregation had departed from morning services.
After
the temporary elders had departed, monthly "Fathers Council"
(male heads of families) meetings were instituted for
accountability, training, and communication
purposes.
Phil Lancaster put his writing skills to use
and began Patriarch magazine in the summer of 1993 in order to
reach a wider circle of men with his desire to equip them. In
September of 1994, the Lancaster family moved from St. Louis
to the Rolla, MO. area, about a 2-hour drive away. There they
joined with a Congregation of Christ's Church, another
"sister" start-up family-friendly church. This physical move
was also accompanied by an increasingly larger vision of
church planting.
EldershipPhil's
departure left IFF without eldership and its future in
question. However, he was still committed to monthly visits to
provide oversight and teaching until local elders could be
recognized and ordained. Until that time arrived a three man
leadership team was established. Based on the counsel of Phil
and several outside elders, it was decided that the
regular-attending families of IFF should make some commitment
to the new leaders to show support and solidarity.
One
Sunday in June of 1995 we held a formal membership "Confession
Day" in which each father was to stand and speak on behalf of
his family. Each personal "confession" was to include at
least, 1) a testimony of the family's relationship with Jesus
Christ and 2) a verbal commitment that IFF was to be
considered their home church. Scripture reading and a verbal
commitment of submission to the temporary leadership team were
strongly encouraged, but optional. Without a doubt, this was
the most special day in our young 5-year history. Men spoke
and made it clear where they stood with the Lord and with the
church.
However, this day also brought heartache as two
families refused to participate and left the church. Then, in
time, several other families, who had made their confession,
left over the whole ordeal. With the leadership team now in
place, Phil's oversight was reduced to meeting with us just
quarterly.
On February 11, 1996, five and half years
after the church's inception, two men were recognized by the
congregation, and ordained as the first "home-grown" elders.
Phil Lancaster and two other local ordained ministers laid
hands on the new elders at their request. Phil Lancaster's
responsibility with IFF then ended and, soon thereafter, the
Fathers Council meetings also ended, no longer being
necessary.
Home
ChurchingIn October of 1996, being persuaded by
scripture, and hastened along by the geographical locations of
our member families (at one time we had 12 families, but they
were living in 7 different counties), we slowly began a
transition and movement towards three regional meetings to be
held in private homes, the last Sunday of every month.
By April of 1997 we moved to meeting every other week
in homes. After much prayer and planning the elders decided in
May of 2000 to meet regionally in homes 8 out of 9 Sundays,
with one remaining corporate meeting at Des Peres on the first
Sunday of every other month in order to help maintain
unity. Recent
HistorySeptember 28, 2000 marked the 10th anniversary of
the founding of our fellowship. A "homecoming" was planned and
Phil Lancaster, who had since moved to Virginia in 1998, was
invited to be the guest speaker and teacher that day. Our
sister churches from New Haven and Rolla, and previous members
were also invited.
Today we have 2 elders and 1
deacon, and we pray that God will continue to raise up men to
be leaders in their own homes and within this local
church.
Many families have come and gone over these
past 13 years. We trust and pray that they have been blessed
and ministered to by our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ and have
grown in their walk and knowledge of Him. We will continue to
strive to be obedient to His plan and pattern for His
church.
To God Be The Glory—November
2004
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